Living In Reality vs. Living In Fantasy

by Christopher Maher | Free for Life | 0 comments

In your life, you’ve got to be able to draw a distinction between living in reality vs. living in fantasy. It’s easy to live in fantasy. It’s very difficult to live in reality. But reality is much more interesting.

It’s Time to Start Living In Reality vs. Living In Fantasy

Let’s say the data says, “I hope he calls me today. I know he’s going to call me. We’re going to have a good time, etc.” And guess what? He doesn’t call you. And the next day, he doesn’t call you. Or the next day, he doesn’t call you. What does it mean? It means that he doesn’t have the same kind of interests that you have in that relationship.

So, what do you need to do? You need to pay attention to the actual data rather than living in some fantasy world around this idea that you’ve created around this relationship that is false. As long as you live in fantasy, you’ll never see what’s actually occurring. And, you won’t be able to adjust and get what you want out of that relationship, whether it’s personal, romantic, or interpersonal.

Live in Reality to Experience a Fulfilling, Authentic Life

While there’s nothing wrong with dreaming or having a vivid imagination, it’s essential to ground those dreams in reality to live a fulfilling and authentic life.

Living in reality means acknowledging the world as it is, understanding your circumstances, and taking responsibility for your actions. It involves setting realistic goals, making informed decisions, and being aware of your limitations while striving for improvement. This approach encourages personal growth and resilience, as you learn to navigate life’s challenges with a clear perspective.

Christopher Lee Maher is a former Navy SEAL who endured intense amounts of physical, mental, and emotional stress as a child and during and after his military career. He has taught himself how to free his energy, body, mind and emotions from pain by developing the emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual aspects of being. Christopher studied Traditional Chinese Medical Practices at the Pacific College of Oriental Medicine and at Yo San University. He then continued his studies at The Universal Healing Tao System. Christopher is a student of Grand Master Mantak Chia at the Universal Tao Master School in Chiang Mai, Thailand. He is currently pursuing his Master’s and Doctorate degrees in Traditional Chinese Medicine.