{"id":21411,"date":"2022-11-02T18:58:24","date_gmt":"2022-11-02T22:58:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/?p=21411"},"modified":"2024-09-30T08:56:01","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T12:56:01","slug":"the-fear-of-writing-a-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2022\/11\/the-fear-of-writing-a-book\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fear of Writing a Book"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I always send a questionnaire before a book concept consultation so that the author and I can both prepare for the session. As I look through the questionnaire, I make a list of any seeming or potential gaps in the author\u2019s knowledge of book writing and publishing, so they can fine tune their book concept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often some of the writer&#8217;s questions have to do with fear of writing a book, self-doubt, performance anxiety and related issues. I make note to discuss any areas that need a breakthrough.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/lisa-tener-book-writing-coach-1.jpg\" alt=\"Lisa Tener book coach\" class=\"wp-image-20387\" width=\"317\" height=\"317\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/lisa-tener-book-writing-coach-1.jpg 762w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/lisa-tener-book-writing-coach-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/lisa-tener-book-writing-coach-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/lisa-tener-book-writing-coach-1-75x75.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 317px) 100vw, 317px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I also list areas we can brainstorm about together, feedback and ideas I want to share, and questions to ask their muse (or creative source or inner knowing). After the education in book writing and publishing, feedback on their book concept and some brainstorming, we answer the remaining questions through a guided visualization exercise \u201cMeet Your Muse.\u201d This often includes addresses fear, self-doubt, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-common-fear-around-book-writing\">A Common Fear Around Book Writing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>During last Friday\u2019s consultation, the author shared her concerns about writing her book. Was it a good idea? Would people like it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I guided the author In the \u201cMeet Your Muse\u201d exercise, she shared her muse\u2019s advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAs with anything, writing a book is neither good nor bad. It\u2019s the energy with which you approach it. Try to maintain an energy of consciousness and helping others vs. fear of what people think or ego. It\u2019s neutral to write a book. It\u2019s the energy you bring to it\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She paused and reflected, \u201cI think that\u2019s gonna be a core thing I have to return to over and over to have a good relationship with book writing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Valuable Lesson for Aspiring Authors and Writers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This muse\u2019s advice offers such a valuable lesson. While it\u2019s important to create a quality book and to think deeply about what you are creating, when you get caught up in fear or performance anxiety, it\u2019s a sign you\u2019re on the wrong track.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"open heart\" class=\"wp-image-21413\" width=\"390\" height=\"219\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-150x84.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/giulia-bertelli-dvXGnwnYweM-unsplash-2048x1152.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 390px) 100vw, 390px\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@giulia_bertelli?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Giulia Bertelli<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/s\/photos\/open-heart?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a>\n  <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ground.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Center.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Open your heart to your future readers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you can return your mind to focus on being of service, you\u2019ll find that answers bubble up with ease, writing flows and confidence flows, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do You Need Support on Your Writing Project?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe it&#8217;s time you scheduled a <a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/book-concept-consultation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">book concept consultation<\/a> with me in order to get clear on readership, tone, content, features, structure, publishing path and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, if you need help making the time, being accountable, writing efficiently and tapping into your best and most inspiring writing, check out my <a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/get-your-writing-done\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Get Your Writing Done Program<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A Get Your Writing Done participant just told me that in just two hours a week during our class (and no extra time for writing) she completed 150 pages in the past 3 months! And I read her first chapter yesterday and the writing is fantastic (we truly get into the zone in class, where your best writing emerges!). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She told me, &#8220;There&#8217;s no way I would have gotten that far without Get Your Writing Done!&#8221; Check out the <a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/get-your-writing-done\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">live, remote weekly (or twice weekly) writing program here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What challenges\u2014or insights\u2014are coming up for you this week? Share your comments below.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always send a questionnaire before a book concept consultation so that the author and I can both prepare for the session. As I look through the questionnaire, I make a list of any seeming or potential gaps in the author\u2019s knowledge of book writing and publishing, so they can fine tune their book concept&#8230;.<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2022\/11\/the-fear-of-writing-a-book\/\"><em>&nbsp; Read more<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21413,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[55,1678,41,15,24,25],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-21411","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-creativity","8":"category-how-to-write-a-book","9":"category-inspiration","10":"category-organizing-a-book","11":"category-writing","12":"category-writing-blocks","13":"entry"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21411"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":278693,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21411\/revisions\/278693"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21413"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}