{"id":18869,"date":"2021-10-22T04:41:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T09:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/?p=18869"},"modified":"2024-09-30T08:56:13","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T12:56:13","slug":"day-22-october-journaling-adventure-with-the-joy-of-writing-journal-2-2-2-2-2-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2021\/10\/day-22-october-journaling-adventure-with-the-joy-of-writing-journal-2-2-2-2-2-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 22: October Journaling Adventure with The Joy of Writing Journal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/\">Today we list 5 perceived flaws or strengths of ours.<\/a> Or else of someone we admire. Do that now!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then we flip it. Explore how that strength can also be a flaw or how the flaw can be a strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Lisa Tener Joy of Writing Journal\" class=\"wp-image-18486\" width=\"355\" height=\"237\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/SAJ_2719-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 355px) 100vw, 355px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a useful exercise in expanding our perceptions and perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have trouble with the Day 22 prompt. I can make my list of flaws no problem. But how are these strengths? I can&#8217;t see it. I skip ahead to Day 24.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I return to Day 22 another day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I start with the flaw, but what soon emerges is compassion for myself.  Here&#8217;s an excerpt:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Lisa, I just want you to know I love you. Sometimes you&#8217;ll listen with your ears and heart, with the hairs on your skin prickling, and sometimes you&#8217;ll remain so focused on what you planned to say  you may need to ask the person to repeat their words because they went right through you&#8230;.<\/p><p>&#8230;and I still love you&#8230;<\/p><p>Lisa, when you notice you&#8217;re not listening, you now have a choice to continue not listening. Or to try to listen, to open up to the person with curiosity, or if that&#8217;s too hard, to open up to yourself with curiosity, &#8220;That&#8217;s curious that so and so&#8217;s mouth is moving and I am not receiving the words. I wonder what that&#8217;s about.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Curiosity and wonder emerged from a mindfulness course offered by my dear friend, Communication Coach <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ivoicecommunication.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Donna Rustigian Mac<\/a>. Thank you, Donna!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-turn-to-share\">Your Turn to Share<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/NewFrontCoverJoyofWriting_Cover.jpg\" alt=\"The Joy of Writing Journal: Spark Your Creativity in 8 Minutes a Day\" class=\"wp-image-18598\" width=\"245\" height=\"301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/NewFrontCoverJoyofWriting_Cover.jpg 500w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/NewFrontCoverJoyofWriting_Cover-244x300.jpg 244w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/NewFrontCoverJoyofWriting_Cover-122x150.jpg 122w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 245px) 100vw, 245px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>What&#8217;s it like to explore a flaw or a strength? Can you flip it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Share an excerpt or a struggle, an insight or a phrase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or share anything provoked by the experience I share. Can you bring compassion to your exploration?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today we list 5 perceived flaws or strengths of ours. Or else of someone we admire. Do that now! Then we flip it. Explore how that strength can also be a flaw or how the flaw can be a strength. It&#8217;s a useful exercise in expanding our perceptions and perspective. 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