{"id":17573,"date":"2020-11-30T20:58:52","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T01:58:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisatener.local\/?p=17573"},"modified":"2024-09-30T08:56:22","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T12:56:22","slug":"why-her-creative-muse-kept-waking-her-at-1-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2020\/11\/why-her-creative-muse-kept-waking-her-at-1-am\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Her Creative Muse Kept Waking Her at 1 am!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/familieseatingwell.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Stephanie Meyers<\/a> hadn&#8217;t planned on a &#8220;meet your creative muse&#8221; meditation. In fact, we got on Zoom to shoot a quick video for my forthcoming book, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/opt\/creative-tips-and-book-launch\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Joy of Writing Journal: Spark Your Creativity in 8 Minutes a Day<\/a><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After we shot the video, Stephanie confessed that she didn&#8217;t know what to do about a recent problem: her creative muse kept waking her at 1 am. I didn&#8217;t have an answer either. Usually, the inner muse wakes people when they haven&#8217;t been making time for their writing or creativity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/steph-headshot-e1526064472549.jpg\" alt=\"Stephanie Meyers\" class=\"wp-image-17574\" width=\"303\" height=\"302\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/steph-headshot-e1526064472549.jpg 620w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/steph-headshot-e1526064472549-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/steph-headshot-e1526064472549-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/steph-headshot-e1526064472549-75x75.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 303px) 100vw, 303px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>That wasn&#8217;t the case with Stephanie. In fact, she&#8217;d gone to her office on a Saturday to write her next chapter, undisturbed except for our video call. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-pressure-of-deadlines-after-signing-a-book-contract\">The Pressure of Deadlines After Signing a Book Contract<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After we had worked together on Stephanie&#8217;s book proposal last year, she signed with a literary agent and recently signed a book contract with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newharbinger.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">New Harbinger Publications<\/a>. She was now working away quite diligently on her chapters so as to meet her deadlines and her publisher&#8217;s expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At a loss for why her creative muse kept disturbing her otherwise restful sleep, I suggested I lead her through the guided meditation I call, &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/meet-your-muse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Meet Your Muse<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I guided Stephanie through the imaginary path in a meadow, into the woods and then a clearing with a little building within which her creative muse awaited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Ask your muse what it needs from you,&#8221; I suggested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Trust. Believing in myself. My muse says I&#8217;m wanting to please my publishing team and feeling like a little kid trying to please teachers by working in overdrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-the-creative-muse-needs\">What the Creative Muse Needs<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My muse wants to me not to try so hard. To trust that my message is still available&nbsp;to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"Creative Muse Gratitude journal\n\" class=\"wp-image-17738\" width=\"303\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-1536x1023.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gabrielle-henderson-Y3OrAn230bs-unsplash-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 303px) 100vw, 303px\" \/><figcaption>Your creative muse needs your gratitude<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;As I think about it, I&#8217;ve fallen off the final step you taught us for creative flow\u2014gratitude. I&#8217;m trying to get writing done. I need to resume writing with gratitude, not churning out batches. My muse says to stay with my purpose and the underlying reason I started on this journey.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My muse would appreciate respect, too. It&#8217;s waking me up in the night to prove that it&#8217;s working hard and helping me stay on top of my writing and the publisher&#8217;s expectations, while also letting me know that it wants its spirit to be honored in the process.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-honor-the-spirit-of-the-muse\">How to Honor the Spirit of the Muse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;It\u2019s eye opening to realize my muse just wants to be honored. The 1 a.m. wake ups were a sufficiently quiet time to get my attention, but consistently waking at that hour made me aggravated and perturbed.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-760x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Creative muse wakes you up\" class=\"wp-image-17737\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-760x1024.jpg 760w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-223x300.jpg 223w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-111x150.jpg 111w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-768x1034.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-1140x1536.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-1521x2048.jpg 1521w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/kinga-cichewicz-HYcXUU-mLwE-unsplash-scaled.jpg 1901w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><figcaption>Does your muse wake you up?<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s when I prompted Stephanie to ask her creative muse how she could honor its spirit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My muse is trying to send me the message that it&#8217;s present, accounted&nbsp;for, okay.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;When it wakes me, I can make a sincere vow: &#8216;I see you! I know you&#8217;re here. We can rest now. We&#8217;ll join forces again in the morning.'&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My muse says, when I signed the book deal, I prioritized deadlines and producing a product over my creative perspective and purpose. I feel a sense of relief, recommitting to feeling gratitude, embracing my creativity and honoring my muse whenever I write.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-creative-gratitude\">Focus on Creative Gratitude<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"gratitude journal\" class=\"wp-image-17739\" width=\"249\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/prophsee-journals-4AL-idYwsEc-unsplash-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 249px) 100vw, 249px\" \/><figcaption>Keeping a gratitude log<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Stephanie created a daily gratitude log that she uses before and after writing. She said, &#8220;It helps me in so many ways! From finding my voice to collecting my energy and focusing so I can write with clarity. It gives me a boost of courage when I&#8217;m feeling&nbsp;vulnerable and helps me keep my commitments to myself, no matter how big or small.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When her gratitude practice fell off, it impacted her writing. &#8220;I&#8217;m thankful you helped me revisit the muse exercise today because it led me to dust off my gratitude journal. It&#8217;s a fitting time of year to get back on track [with gratitude].&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-will-you-honor-your-creative-muse\">How Will You Honor Your Creative Muse?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These questions may help you get back on track if you&#8217;ve been prioritizing productivity over creativity:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Are you pushing yourself to churn out chapters? <\/li><li>Are you honoring the spirit of your muse? <\/li><li>Do you remember to practice gratitude when you write? <\/li><li>What else helps you connect with your muse? <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>What can you commit to right now to honor your muse and welcome creative flow?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stephanie Meyers hadn&#8217;t planned on a &#8220;meet your creative muse&#8221; meditation. In fact, we got on Zoom to shoot a quick video for my forthcoming book, The Joy of Writing Journal: Spark Your Creativity in 8 Minutes a Day. After we shot the video, Stephanie confessed that she didn&#8217;t know what to do about a&#8230;<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2020\/11\/why-her-creative-muse-kept-waking-her-at-1-am\/\"><em>&nbsp; Read more<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17574,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[55,24,27,42],"tags":[1499,1978,148,1486,8861,8860],"class_list":{"0":"post-17573","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-creativity","8":"category-writing","9":"category-writing-challenges","10":"category-writing-secrets","11":"tag-book-contract","12":"tag-creative-muse","13":"tag-creativity-2","14":"tag-new-harbinger","15":"tag-stephanie-meyers","16":"tag-waking-up-at-night","17":"entry"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17573"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":278789,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573\/revisions\/278789"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17574"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}