{"id":1715,"date":"2010-10-20T22:46:00","date_gmt":"2010-10-21T03:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lisatener.local\/blog\/?p=1715"},"modified":"2024-09-30T09:00:45","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T13:00:45","slug":"how-to-make-the-most-of-vip-encounters-hint-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2010\/10\/how-to-make-the-most-of-vip-encounters-hint-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make the Most of VIP Encounters (Hint: Social Media)"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1276\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1276\" style=\"width: 222px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/head-on-hands-on-books1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1276   \" title=\"head-on-hands-on-books1\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/head-on-hands-on-books1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"222\" height=\"308\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1276\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Your Book Writing and Book Proposal Coach<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>One of my <a title=\"book writing course\" href=\"http:\/\/lisatener.com\/book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bring Your Book to Life <\/a>students e-mailed me to say that she would be meeting a VIP in the medical world in a few short weeks at a networking luncheon through her husband&#8217;s business.<\/p>\n<p>She asked how to best approach him. A foreword or even a blurb from him would be a real coup. And perhaps he might offer advice on the book publishing and promotion front.<\/p>\n<p>In the old days, she&#8217;d probably have to wait until the event to introduce herself, but nowadays we can connect easily and become part of someone&#8217;s community at the click of a mouse through social media.<\/p>\n<p>I suggested she read his books, then check out his blog and subscribe, asking relevant questions or making comments of substance on his posts that add value to the discussion. I also suggested she see if he has a <a title=\"facebook\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/BringYourBookToLife#!\/BringYourBookToLife?v=wall\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">facebook fan page<\/a>, <a title=\"twitter lisa tener\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/LisaTener\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">twitter <\/a>id, etc. and connect in these social media arenas, as well. Here&#8217;s a place she can add value for him by retweeting his tweets or sharing his updates.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1267\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1267\" style=\"width: 175px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/facebook_logo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1267\" title=\"facebook_logo\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/facebook_logo.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"66\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/facebook_logo.jpg 175w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/facebook_logo-150x57.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/facebook_logo-100x38.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1267\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">  <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Whether he remembers her or not, she&#8217;ll now be part of his online community and can introduce herself accordingly. She&#8217;s no longer a random stranger, but part of his tribe.<\/p>\n<p>And most bloggers are particularly grateful for those who add to the discourse on their blogs, so he&#8217;s likely to remember her unless his blog gets hundreds of comments. Authors appreciate their fans.<\/p>\n<p>Is this disingenuous? I think not. It&#8217;s easier to meet people and become part of their circle through social media. To take advantages of the technology just makes sense&#8211;and it&#8217;s part of what successful authors do. If you can contribute to someone before you ever meet them, why wouldn&#8217;t you?<\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re planning to attend an event or book signing with one of your &#8220;paper mentors&#8221; and you want to connect more deeply, become part of their online circle before you physically meet. And think about what you can do for them, too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my Bring Your Book to Life students e-mailed me to say that she would be meeting a VIP in the medical world in a few short weeks at a networking luncheon through her husband&#8217;s business. She asked how to best approach him. A foreword or even a blurb from him would be a&#8230;<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2010\/10\/how-to-make-the-most-of-vip-encounters-hint-social-media\/\"><em>&nbsp; Read more<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3,5,1,167,168,19],"tags":[160,161,162,163,164,165,166],"class_list":{"0":"post-1715","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-authors-platform","7":"category-book-publicity","8":"category-more","9":"category-social-media-2","10":"category-social-media-for-authors","11":"category-social-networking","12":"tag-blog","13":"tag-blurbs","14":"tag-facebook","15":"tag-famous-authors","16":"tag-foreword","17":"tag-social-media","18":"tag-twitter","19":"entry"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1715"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":279370,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715\/revisions\/279370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}