{"id":16915,"date":"2020-02-10T17:12:39","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T22:12:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lisatener.local\/?p=16915"},"modified":"2024-09-30T08:56:30","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T12:56:30","slug":"5-ways-to-get-unstuck","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2020\/02\/5-ways-to-get-unstuck\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Get Unstuck: In Writing, Creativity and Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong>Looking for Ways to Get Unstuck in Your Writing, Creativity or Life?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>This time of year, in the Northeast, it\u2019s especially easy to get creatively stuck. It\u2019s cold outside. We hunker down, watch more TV, skip yoga class, eat chocolate\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll write tomorrow. I\u2019ll exercise later.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s downhill from there.<\/p>\n<p>But it doesn\u2019t have to be that way. Winter can be an especially inspiring time if you know how to get unstuck. How?<\/p>\n<h2>5 Ways to Get Unstuck<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16908\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16908\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-16908 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/20200201_160047-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Lisa Tener book coach gets unstuck\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16908\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Moving to the Jamestown Library for my writing last weekend really freed me up.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>#1: <strong>Change Your Environment<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I do my book coaching, teaching and much of my editing from my in-home office that doubles as a guest room.<\/p>\n<p>In winter, I spend even more time in that room where it becomes an entertainment center for watching Netflix or Hulu, phone calls to family (I still prefer a landline) \u00a0and reading books from the guest bed<\/p>\n<p>I kept putting off writing the chapter summaries for my book proposal and I finally realized, I needed a new environment, both for the change of scenery and to spread out in a big room, surrounded only by my book ideas.<\/p>\n<p>So, I hauled over to the <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamestownphilomenianlibrary.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jamestown Library<\/a> and took over a conference room, where I could spread out my book and post-it notes and <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2020\/02\/how-to-write-a-book-quickly-and-make-it-exceptionally-good\/\" target=\"_blank\">create the outline<\/a> of my book.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16964\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16964\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-16964 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lisa-jamestown-supplies-start-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"get unstuck - spread out\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16964\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Find a space to spread out to get unstuck<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>#2: <strong>Make Space<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When I first thought of mapping my book with post its I couldn\u2019t imagine where in my home office I could find enough space to spread out.<\/p>\n<p>Creative projects often require both physical space and space for one\u2019s psyche.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I spoke to an aspiring author who also felt stuck because of all the different projects in her workspace. In a guided visualization we did together, we asked her creative <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2017\/12\/what-does-your-creative-muse-say-about-your-book\/\" target=\"_blank\">inner muse<\/a> how to create the space and her muse responded with the advice to rent a separate studio for her artwork and move that out of the space where she\u2019d be writing her book.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, when she told me that her large whiteboard was half covered by ideas for her podcast, I suggested a separate surface for her outlining and book-related work. Why? Every time she looks at her emerging outline, she\u2019d also see the podcast info. In essence, the podcast would intrude on her \u201chead space\u201d for the book. She agreed.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#3: \u00a0Get Moving<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Sitting still at a computer all day practically guarantees getting stuck at some point. We need movement (and blood flow and breath) to keep our brains functioning optimally. Physical stagnancy creates creative stagnancy.<\/p>\n<p>So, whether you stand up and do jumping jacks, yoga stretches or qigong, or you don your boots and raincoat and go for a walk in the rain or snow, you\u2019ll likely find yourself refreshed and unstuck when you return to your desk.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16965\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16965\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-16965 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lisa-headress-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Playful Creative Unstuck\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16965\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Donning my playful headdress at Hera Gallery Gala<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3><strong>#4: Be Playful<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When we feel the weight of the world on our shoulders, we\u2019re more inclined to feel pressured and stressed. Do these emotions contribute to creativity? Hardly.<\/p>\n<p>When we allow ourselves to be playful in one area of life, we open up to creativity and flow in other areas.<\/p>\n<p>I recently made a playful headdress at the <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.heragallery.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">HERA Art Gallery<\/a> Gala. I put it on just before working on my book and\u2014voila\u2014instant inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>Why does this work? Playfulness is liberating. It helps us go beyond linear thinking and make creative connections we didn\u2019t see before. And once we\u2019re in that creative mindset, we don\u2019t even remember feeling stuck.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#5: Return to Your Vision<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In my book writing classes, I noticed a pattern that for many people, if things were going to fall apart, it tended to happen in week 3. \u201cI didn\u2019t write anything.\u201d \u201cI lost my drive.\u201d \u201cI\u2019m stuck.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amazingly, I rarely needed to say much because other participants in the class offered what helped them stay on course and unstuck. And the thing I heard over and over was, \u201cDo you read your vision statement daily?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In week 1 of my <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/book\/\" target=\"_blank\">Bring Your Book to Life\u00ae Program<\/a>, we start with creating a vision statement for our book\u2014what it will do for our readers, our own work and lives and the greater community or society. I encourage everyone to work on that vision until it feels like a 10 (on the 1-10 scale of inspiration).<\/p>\n<p>Then, I suggest participants read their vision statement daily and also right before sitting down to write.<\/p>\n<p>People find that the vision statement provides focus and clarity:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You know where you\u2019re heading.<\/li>\n<li>Your vision statement can guide your artistic decisions (\u201cwhich path, A or B, better aligns with my vision?\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>You can use your vision statement to keep you engaged and inspired.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you read your vision statement and feel uninspired, maybe it\u2019s time to tweak it. Or make a more dramatic change. Your passion in reading it tells you how on target it is.<\/p>\n<p>I find that when writers or other creatives return to their vision statement, it\u2019s often all they need to get back on track\u2014inspired, motivated and creative.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what one person&#8217;s inner muse had to say when her <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2017\/03\/when-your-writing-practice-falls-apart\/\" target=\"_blank\">writing practice fell apart<\/a> and she got stuck.<\/p>\n<h2>Visual Artist Uli Brahmst on Creative Process<\/h2>\n<p>I asked a few artist friends about their creative process and to share how they use some of the 5 Ways I mention in their work. How do they keep their creativity flowing?<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.ulibrahmst.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Uli Brahmst<\/a>, visual artist and President of the Board of <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.heragallery.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Hera Gallery<\/a> in Wakefield RI shared this:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16969\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16969\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-16969 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/uli-lisa-2-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16969\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Uli Brahmst and Lisa Tener at Hera Gallery Gala at The Towers, Narragansett in January<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>About play<\/strong>: &#8220;I clean up my studio&#8230; in no time I come across so many intriguing things that I start putting together little collages (they always feel like play to me) and I am on my way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div><strong>About movement and change of environment<\/strong>: &#8220;I do move around a lot while doing that which probably helps to get the juices flowing.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8220;If I really feel I need a breeze of fresh air I get a quirky book or poetry\/art magazine&#8230; something not too flashy and start reading&#8230; instantly I want to draw something and never make it much past the first couple of pages. In this context, I change the creative modality which is like a change of environment.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Uli also adds that she has a number of projects going at once: &#8220;I also <b>move<\/b> between a number of simultaneous projects so that I can always work on something even if another area of my work feels stuck and working in itself creates new momentum.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16968\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16968\" style=\"width: 801px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16968\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view.jpg\" alt=\"Uli Brahmst, Sanctuary II\" width=\"801\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view.jpg 801w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view-768x575.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Uli_Brahmst_gallery-view-640x479.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16968\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sanctuary II, 2020; branches, wool, watercolor on rice paper, chalk, clay, gold leaf, wood mounted inkjet prints. This piece is part of the current exhibit at UMass Dartmouth, New Bedford Campus.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;My problem has never really been to get stuck, I am more on the other end of the spectrum: I operate on overload and need to slow down. I think they might be two faces of the same coin&#8230; I really like handwork as a remedy for over stimulation, especially weaving, because the complexity of patterns keeps the mind focused on counting and technical challenges. Going from working freely and intuitively in drawing and collaging to working very structured in weaving is also comparable to a change of environment.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16970\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16970\" style=\"width: 239px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-16970 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/RococoIII-239x300.jpg\" alt=\"Uli Brahmst Art\" width=\"239\" height=\"300\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16970\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rococo in the 21st Century III by Uli Brahmst<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I also believe in taking our creativity out of the studio into the real world (similarly to taking your yoga off the mat) and find things like installing a show or working collaboratively on bringing art to the community a good way to mix up my studio practice.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Uli&#8217;s work can be seen in her private show, &#8220;<a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.umassd.edu\/cvpa\/universityartgallery\/exhibitions\/2020\/uli-brahmst-on-being-a-woman-.html\" target=\"_blank\">On Being a Woman<\/a>,&#8221; January 21 &#8211; March 21, 2020 at UMass Dartmouth University Art Gallery in Downtown New Bedford. The exhibit is open free of charge through March 12. The gallery is open daily, 9 am to 6 pm.<\/div>\n<div>I attended the opening and was blown away by the impact of her work; the breadth and diversity of subject matter, media and imagery; and her author talk which brought such insights and had me thinking about her message(s) on my hour and a half drive home from New Bedford.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I hadn&#8217;t realized what a vibrant art scene New Bedford has. The second Thursday of the month, the city celebrates art through <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.ahanewbedford.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">AHA New Bedford<\/a>, where you can find many art openings, artist talks, performances and more. As a writer, I find that an infusion of art and performance inspires my own work and opens my mind!<\/div>\n<div>\n<h2 class=\"lead\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Your Turn to Share<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<p>What works for you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looking for Ways to Get Unstuck in Your Writing, Creativity or Life? This time of year, in the Northeast, it\u2019s especially easy to get creatively stuck. It\u2019s cold outside. We hunker down, watch more TV, skip yoga class, eat chocolate\u2026 I\u2019ll write tomorrow. I\u2019ll exercise later. And it\u2019s downhill from there. 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