{"id":10687,"date":"2014-03-20T20:45:06","date_gmt":"2014-03-21T01:45:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lisatener.local\/?p=10687"},"modified":"2024-09-30T08:59:02","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T12:59:02","slug":"how-to-write-a-memoir-answers-to-your-questions-from-the-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2014\/03\/how-to-write-a-memoir-answers-to-your-questions-from-the-call\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Write a Memoir: Answers to Your Questions from the Call"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10690 lkxpptrtarstzldhfhen uudpgapltbqwnsanzprl\" alt=\"book writing class\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner_300x250.png\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner_300x250.png 300w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner_300x250-150x125.png 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner_300x250-100x83.png 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/inspired-teleseminar\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10643 alignleft\" alt=\"book writing teleseminar\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner3.jpg\" width=\"248\" height=\"207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner3.jpg 248w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner3-150x125.jpg 150w, https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Banner3-100x83.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 248px) 100vw, 248px\" \/><\/a>Wow, we had a great call on how to get started writing a book on Tuesday. We received 224 comments and questions when people registered. So, as you might imagine, we hardly scratched the surfacing in answering in our 1 hour call. Over the next few weeks, I&#8217;ll answer as many questions as I can, grouped by topic. If you find your topic, but not your question, just ask as a comment below and I promise to answer. And feel free to ask new questions as they get sparked!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Stephany asked, &#8220;How to Start a Memoir?&#8221;<\/strong> Well, without knowing your story, I can&#8217;t completely guess, but let&#8217;s just say start with something that will grab your readers&#8211;one of the most dramatic moments in the book is a good spot&#8211;even if that means backing up and telling much of the book as flashback. Another option is to start somewhere that reveals quite a bit about one of the characters (perhaps you) and gets readers curious to know more. Specific and quirky details, a powerful &#8220;voice&#8221; and strong characterizations will all help draw readers in, Stephany.<\/p>\n<p><strong>David asked, \u201cFor biographical books&#8230; autobiography or novel? Pros and cons?\u201d<\/strong> <strong>Kate and Carmen asked similar questions.<\/strong> We could spend an hour asking this alone, but here\u2019s the short version:<\/p>\n<p>1. Memoir is probably slightly easier to sell (and promote).<\/p>\n<p>2. Novel is slightly harder to write (in general).<\/p>\n<p>3. Novel will allow you to change anything you want so you are not so wedded to \u201cthe truth.\u201d \u00a0It can also protect people that might be more easily identified in a memoir.<\/p>\n<p>4. A novel can protect you from a lawsuit, though there is no guarantee\u2014run it by an attorney if you are concerned.<\/p>\n<p>Hope that helps. Any of my writer\/editor colleagues want to chime in on this one?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rosa asked: \u201cCan you talk about the process of writing the memoir&#8230;it is certainly not a linear process but every part of the story is powerful and necessary. Also, how to approach flashbacks when writing this type of work&#8230;Thank you.\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\nRosa, It\u2019s easier to write a story that\u2019s fairly linear, but flashbacks can certainly add texture to the story. Here are a few tips:<\/p>\n<p>1. Start at a point of drama: this will draw in your readers. You can start with a dramatic point for a few pages or a chapter and then go into the deeper past where you want to begin the telling of the story.<\/p>\n<p>2. Don\u2019t nest a flashback within another flashback or readers will get lost.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-6076 alignleft\" alt=\"stuart horwitz\" src=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/photo-stuart-horwitz.jpg\" width=\"54\" height=\"82\" \/>3. My colleague Stuart Horwitz once said something like, \u201cYou can have a flashback but don\u2019t fall in love with the past so much that the reader loses the sense of the reading present.\u201d So, most of the story should take place in the \u201clinear\u201d arena and the flashbacks should not get too long that the reader loses their sense of where they are.<\/p>\n<p>4. Make sure that everything in the book supports the theme. If you\u2019re writing about your spiritual journey, a story about your sister\u2019s wedding that does not relate\u2014no matter how funny or entertaining, for instance\u2014may not fit well with the theme. Leave it for another book or a blog post. Don\u2019t force something that doesn\u2019t fit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, share your questions below on how to write a memoir<\/strong> and I will answer. Other questions? Feel free to ask or wait until I get to that subject over the next couple weeks&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Missed the call? <a title=\"how to write a book\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Listen here to Jump Start Your Book<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, we had a great call on how to get started writing a book on Tuesday. We received 224 comments and questions when people registered. So, as you might imagine, we hardly scratched the surfacing in answering in our 1 hour call. Over the next few weeks, I&#8217;ll answer as many questions as I can,&#8230;<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/2014\/03\/how-to-write-a-memoir-answers-to-your-questions-from-the-call\/\"><em>&nbsp; Read more<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10044,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1678,1,15,22,24,73],"tags":[1457,1458,1321,1456],"class_list":{"0":"post-10687","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-how-to-write-a-book","8":"category-more","9":"category-organizing-a-book","10":"category-write-a-memoir","11":"category-writing","12":"category-writing-questions","13":"tag-how-to-organize-a-memoir","14":"tag-how-to-start-a-memoir","15":"tag-how-to-write-a-memoir","16":"tag-stuart-horwitz","17":"entry"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10687","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10687"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10687\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":279151,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10687\/revisions\/279151"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10044"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10687"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10687"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jodieburdette.net\/lisatener\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10687"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}